“Are you seeing anyone?” – The interrogation begins!

The interrogation is a scenario that most singles are quite familiar with. It involves a minimum of one "detective" who's leading the interrogation, and a single person who's declaring their innocence. Important to note is that the interrogation is not culture dependent nor does consider how the parties involved relate to one another. It can … Continue reading “Are you seeing anyone?” – The interrogation begins!

The single woman: a party girl, career woman or psycho?

Have you ever thought about how single women are portrayed in the main stream media? I believe there is a screwed view that is slightly annoying in how single women are presented in movies, series and books. The characterization or the story line connected to single women are usually rooted in old-fashioned stereotypes that need … Continue reading The single woman: a party girl, career woman or psycho?

Rejection and self-blame

I wanted to write a piece on rejection because I recently had a conversation where it hit me just how unaware most people seem to be when it comes to the link between rejection and self-blame but also the disproportional relationship between the two. My experience when working with people (especially those dissatisfied with their … Continue reading Rejection and self-blame

Rejection story: The proper douche bag

This will be the last rejection tale. As previously this is also a true story. There's no need to spend time giving a detailed background leading up to the rejection because it starts off as most does when a woman and man start dating. So let's keep it short and bitter. Imagine spending time with … Continue reading Rejection story: The proper douche bag

Rejection story: The girl who went to Italy

This is the typical girl meets boy at the bar. Let's call her Sara and him David. They started talking, and Sara found David very interesting since he was visiting her hometown from Switzerland but originally being from Italy. He stood out compared to everyone else at the bar and they enjoyed each others company. … Continue reading Rejection story: The girl who went to Italy

Rejection story: The double layered rejection

This is a story of rejection in two rounds. The second part is quite unique I would say. Let's call the girl "Anna" and the rejector "Viktor". It all started with a party Anna almost didn't go to. Thanks to a nagging friend she pulled herself out bed last minute and reluctantly met up with … Continue reading Rejection story: The double layered rejection

Rejection stories

I got an email a while ago from a woman who was interested in someone but the other person didn't reciprocate those feelings. It was clear from her writing that she felt hurt and unwanted. This is understandable and I don't think anyone would react differently. Honestly, I'm not sure I can come up with … Continue reading Rejection stories

Highlights from Otres beach, Sihanoukville <3

Towards the end of my time in Cambodia I was a bit tired and just waned to enjoy a beautiful place. I chose to rent my own bungalow on the beach just by the water. A guy I met had recommended a place called "Sea garden". I spent three days there, eating good food, pampering … Continue reading Highlights from Otres beach, Sihanoukville ❤