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The only thing to do when everyone is settling down but you
Years ago, within one and the same month, three of my close friends announced their pregnancies. Clearly, they were in advanced states of nesting. Meanwhile I was still cooped up in my tiny student apartment nowhere near a relationship, let alone a baby. Feeling delighted for my circle going through life altering changes mixed with… Continue reading
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Two truths about single life which will transform the solo experience
There’s an underlying consensus which casts a shadow on solo life. Regardless of how progressive one might claim to be, it usually doesn’t require much digging to reveal negative assumptions made. This is because misconceptions about single life and its purpose runs deep. In my opinion there are two fundamental truths which if recognized will… Continue reading
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The Pedestal- 4 ways idolizing romantic relationships ruin single life
Romantic relationships can be a beautiful union, yet it’s important to have realistic, down to earth kind of outlook on them. All lifestyles can be described in a dualistic fashion, there are always: pros and cons, sacrifices and gains, challenging and heartwarming moments etc. However, for some singles civil status becomes a black or white… Continue reading
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What’s the bright side of online dating ( no, it’s not a trick question)?
What is the bright side of online dating? And no, this is not a trick question. Generally speaking, dating apps and websites seem to have a negative reputation (to different degrees) which is a shame and it’s time we turn this around! Digital dating has positive sides and I feel it’s my duty to highlight… Continue reading
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Stillness/stuckness in life – a golden invitation
I think most can recognize those periods in life where everything seems static. The stagnation I’m referring to is not only restricted to one or a few areas of life, but overall. I’m talking, null developments or forward movements in any regard. Even attempts to get the ball rolling during this phase might backfire or… Continue reading
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A friendly reminder to all singles: Your life is not vegan cheese! (Happy Valentine’s day)
Since it’s Valentine’s day, I thought I’d seize the opportunity and offer a friendly reminder to singles feeling extra triggered on this commercially hyped up day. Roses, chocolate and the color red began filling isles weeks ago to assure nobody forgets the day of love. Many claim today is dedicated to celebrating all kinds of… Continue reading
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The abandonment wound (everyone has it)
Today I’d like to touch upon a topic I see in everyone: the abandonment wound. Although it has a negative ring to it, the abandonment wound is a fundamental element to the human experience. The second a baby is born and officially a “separate” unit the abandonment wound appears. The experience of being disjointed from… Continue reading
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Haunted! When the ghost returns..
Ghosting, ghosting, ghosting, there’s lots to say about it. In fact, I’ve written two separate posts on the topic: when ghosting occurs in a romantic context and in friendship. There’s a term following the vanishing act which I’m positive will soon be part of the English vocabulary and that is: haunted. To be haunted is shortly,… Continue reading
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Losing your mind: a sign you’re on the right track..
I’m an advocate for losing one’s mind. I’m sure most are familiar with the expression which has a negative ring to it with a bit of “crazy”. On one end of the scale it could imply someone acting out of character or drastic and at the opposite end, acting erratic, losing touch with reality or… Continue reading
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Are you able to call out your memory’s bluff?
The mind is fascinating isn’t it? Composed of countless processes and functions all designed for our survival. A massive role of the mind is cognitive memory. Everything happening is registered and accessible in the memory storage room to be retrieved when needed. It all begins when we are young and told or taught about the… Continue reading