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“Why am I single?” – Discover deeper perspectives cracking the mystery
“Why am I single?” is a natural question to ask if you’re seeking a partner. Especially if you have been for a while. The question might strike you out of curiosity, while glaring back at your love life unable to make sense of it, during long overdue dry spells or in the midst of seasons highlighting romantic relationships. The answer to why you’re single will be unique. But I’d like to share… Continue reading
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Never Been in a Relationship? These 3 Gifts Are Uniquely Yours
You’ve never been in a relationship. Never been chosen. Never experienced romantic reciprocity. And you’ve missed milestones considered important, central, and as a given: your first love, first serious relationship, marriage or children. While at the same time, you’re witnessing… Continue reading
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“When will I find my life partner?” Discover if you’re close…
As a single person it’s natural to ask yourself “when will I find my partner?” Unfortunately, no one can pinpoint an exact time and place. But based on my observations and having worked with singles for over 8 years, I… Continue reading
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“Why does nobody want me?” Discover three perspectives answering the question
“Why does nobody want me” is a heartbreaking question to face. Especially if it’s the result of several closed doors. Or maybe there’s no action at all on the love front. It can feel personal. Like you’re doomed. But what… Continue reading
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How to deal with being rejected- a guide shifting your perspective
Is rejection really protection? Or does it say something about you? It sure might feel like it. Rejection is painful. Brutal, when your heart is in it. Maybe you’ve been ghosted when you saw potential, someone told you they weren’t… Continue reading
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Embrace Self-Love This Holiday Season
Christmas and New Year’s are seasons steeped in traditions of family, relationships, and togetherness. But for those longing for a partner or struggling with their singlehood, this time of year can feel isolating, even overwhelming. It’s easy to fall into… Continue reading
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Desperation in Dating: What It Is, Why It Happens, and How to Break Free
Today, we’re tackling an uncomfortable but necessary topic: desperation. Who doesn’t love a desperate person? (Spoiler: no one.) I’ve had my fair share of desperado moments—so much so, I borderline made it a full-time job. To kick things off, let… Continue reading
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How to Embrace Rumi’s Wisdom for Positive Self-Discovery
The Persian poet and philosopher Rumi is known for the beautiful saying: What you seek is also seeking you. Singles on the lookout for a partner might misinterpret the knowledge of Rumi and draw the conclusion; the life partner they… Continue reading
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Surviving online dating: Assume nothing, believe nothing, check everything
While on a train back from a quick getaway, I was watching a true crime documentary. The episode was following a lead detective solving a real “whodunit” murder case. The opening scene filmed the investigator up close underlining the importance… Continue reading
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“If you don’t have children, you’ll regret it”- words of wisdom or castigation?
Most singles will receive comments and opinions about their solo lifestyle routinely. “How come you’re still single?”, “isn’t it time to settle down?”, “have you met anyone interesting recently?”. These are all questions to be expected. Whether it be at… Continue reading
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