Stillness/stuckness in life – a golden invitation

I think most can recognize those periods in life where everything seems static. The stagnation I'm referring to is not only restricted to one or a few areas of life, but overall. I’m talking, null developments or forward movements in any regard. Even  attempts to get the ball rolling during this phase might backfire or …

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The abandonment wound (everyone has it)

Today I’d like to touch upon a topic I see in everyone: the abandonment wound.  Although it has a negative ring to it, the abandonment wound is  a fundamental element to the human experience.  The second a baby is born and officially a “separate” unit the abandonment wound appears. The experience of being disjointed from …

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Haunted! When the ghost returns..

Ghosting, ghosting, ghosting, there's lots to say about it. In fact, I’ve written two separate posts on the topic: when ghosting occurs in a romantic context and in friendship. There's a term following the vanishing act which I’m positive will soon be part of the English vocabulary and that is: haunted. To be haunted is shortly, …

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Losing your mind: a sign you’re on the right track..

I’m an advocate for losing one’s mind. I’m sure most are familiar with the expression which  has a  negative ring to it with a bit of “crazy”. On one end of the scale it could imply someone acting out of character or drastic and at the opposite end, acting erratic, losing touch with reality or …

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