I’ve always believed every cloud has a silver lining. Plenty of times in my life, plans and expectations backlash or don’t unfolded the way I’d prefer yet after some lapse of time, the purpose of the event becomes evident. I remember when I was slaving away on a farm in a small rural town in … Continue reading Forever singlness- has it been worth it?
The interrogation is a scenario that most singles are quite familiar with. It involves a minimum of one "detective" who's leading the interrogation, and a single person who's declaring their innocence. Important to note is that the interrogation is not culture dependent nor does consider how the parties involved relate to one another. It can … Continue reading “Are you seeing anyone?” – The interrogation begins!
I wanted to write a piece on rejection because I recently had a conversation where it hit me just how unaware most people seem to be when it comes to the link between rejection and self-blame but also the disproportional relationship between the two. My experience when working with people (especially those dissatisfied with their … Continue reading Rejection and self-blame
This will be the last rejection tale. As previously this is also a true story. There's no need to spend time giving a detailed background leading up to the rejection because it starts off as most does when a woman and man start dating. So let's keep it short and bitter. Imagine spending time with … Continue reading Rejection story: The proper douche bag
This is the typical girl meets boy at the bar. Let's call her Sara and him David. They started talking, and Sara found David very interesting since he was visiting her hometown from Switzerland but originally being from Italy. He stood out compared to everyone else at the bar and they enjoyed each others company. … Continue reading Rejection story: The girl who went to Italy
This is a story of rejection in two rounds. The second part is quite unique I would say. Let's call the girl "Anna" and the rejector "Viktor". It all started with a party Anna almost didn't go to. Thanks to a nagging friend she pulled herself out bed last minute and reluctantly met up with … Continue reading Rejection story: The double layered rejection
I got an email a while ago from a woman who was interested in someone but the other person didn't reciprocate those feelings. It was clear from her writing that she felt hurt and unwanted. This is understandable and I don't think anyone would react differently. Honestly, I'm not sure I can come up with … Continue reading Rejection stories