As a single person it’s natural to ask yourself “when will I find my partner?”
Unfortunately, no one can pinpoint an exact time and place.
But based on my observations and having worked with singles for over 6 years, I want to share with you three clues hinting at the how close (or far) you are to finding a life partner.
1. Your longing is a signal connected to when you’ll find your partner
I believe your longing is an invisible pointer indicating the direction you’re heading.
However, when you’ll find a partner depends on how you relate to your longing. The secret lies in feeling your longing without allowing it to take over. What does this mean?
Do you spring into action and do everything in your power to satisfy your longing, or do you lean back and allow the longing to exist without going into overdrive?
When you wonder “when will I find a life partner?” is the feeling neutral, or do you fall into thoughts and feelings which assume something is wrong or will go wrong?
The more neutral you are both in action and emotion, the closer you are to meeting your partner.
When you wonder when you’ll find a partner, consider:
- Do you agree that longing signals where you’re heading?
- What is your relationship with your longing?
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2. Your unique life path determines when you’ll find a partner
We are all on different life paths. I know it’s tempting to compare yourself to others. Especially when it feels like everyone follows the same schedule. And it looks like your life journey is taking a different route. This is neither a coincidence nor a sign of something being “wrong”?
Before you meet a partner, you might need to explore yourself, feel your true worth, heal unhealthy patterns and traumas, or build a solid foundation to stand on.
Life will guide you through necessary processes and insights that need to fall into place before you meet a partner. Your life path always has purpose. Even when you’re left with question marks.
And I believe that the stronger your trust is in your life path, the closer you are to meeting your partner.
When will you find a life partner? Remember:
- Your life is a unique story
- It’s okay to wonder when you will meet a partner while simultaneously trusting how your life unfolds.
“When will I find a partner? “ The obvious answer..
The answer to “when will I find my partner” is: perfect timing. Perfect timing has no built in value. It’s simply a moment of maturity, bringing together infinite puzzle pieces into place . And you’re only one of the pieces. That’s it!
Perfect timing is not predictable. However, if you’ve been actively searching for a long time without results, or only met disappointments, the fastest way to perfect timing is to stop chasing.
It might sound like you need to become passive until the time is right. That’s far from true. Stopping the chase is an active action. A powerful choice.
Plus, you have a life to live! So, how will you fill the newfound space replacing the chase?
When the question “when will I find a life partner?” shows itself, ponder:
- Do you believe in perfect timing? Have you ever experienced perrfect timing in other areas of your life?
- How does the thought of stopping the chase feel? Relief, restlessness, waste of time, or something else?
- How you can best use your energy replacing the chase? What excites you? Or brings you peace?
When you’ll find your life partner has no crystal-clear answer. But hopefully you’ve gotten three leads signaling how close or far you might be to finding your life partner.
Nouseibah
Singles’ coach
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