Single life
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“Why does nobody want me?” Discover three perspectives answering the question
“Why does nobody want me” is a heartbreaking question to face. Especially if it’s the result of several closed doors. Or maybe there’s no action at all on the love front. It can feel personal. Like you’re doomed. But what… Continue reading
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Desperation in Dating: What It Is, Why It Happens, and How to Break Free
Today, we’re tackling an uncomfortable but necessary topic: desperation. Who doesn’t love a desperate woman? (Spoiler: no one.) I’ve had my fair share of desperado moments—so much so, I borderline made it a full-time job. To kick things off, let… Continue reading
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Surviving online dating: Assume nothing, believe nothing, check everything
While on a train back from a quick getaway, I was watching a true crime documentary. The episode was following a lead detective solving a real “whodunit” murder case. The opening scene filmed the investigator up close underlining the importance… Continue reading
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“If you don’t have children, you’ll regret it”- words of wisdom or castigation?
Most singles will receive comments and opinions about their solo lifestyle routinely. “How come you’re still single?”, “isn’t it time to settle down?”, “have you met anyone interesting recently?”. These are all questions to be expected. Whether it be at… Continue reading
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The million-dollar question: when will you meet the one?
Many singles, especially those who’ve been on the solo road for some time, might frequently ask themselves the million-dollar question: When will I meet the person for me? Obviously, it’d be impossible for anyone to pinpoint the exact time and… Continue reading
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The only thing to do when everyone is settling down but you
Years ago, within one and the same month, three of my close friends announced their pregnancies. Clearly, they were in advanced states of nesting. Meanwhile I was still cooped up in my tiny student apartment nowhere near a relationship, let… Continue reading
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Two truths about single life which will transform the solo experience
There’s an underlying consensus which casts a shadow on solo life. Regardless of how progressive one might claim to be, it usually doesn’t require much digging to reveal negative assumptions made. This is because misconceptions about single life and its… Continue reading
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The Pedestal- 4 ways idolizing romantic relationships ruin single life
Romantic relationships can be a beautiful union, yet it’s important to have realistic, down to earth kind of outlook on them. All lifestyles can be described in a dualistic fashion, there are always: pros and cons, sacrifices and gains, challenging… Continue reading
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What’s the bright side of online dating ( no, it’s not a trick question)?
What is the bright side of online dating? And no, this is not a trick question. Generally speaking, dating apps and websites seem to have a negative reputation (to different degrees) which is a shame and it’s time we turn… Continue reading
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A friendly reminder to all singles: Your life is not vegan cheese! (Happy Valentine’s day)
Since it’s Valentine’s day, I thought I’d seize the opportunity and offer a friendly reminder to singles feeling extra triggered on this commercially hyped up day. Roses, chocolate and the color red began filling isles weeks ago to assure nobody… Continue reading









