personal development

  • Shifting to neutrality when hitting everyday bumps

    Before a session with a client I always need to meditate and make sure I’m a clean slate mentally and emotionally, creating a non judgmental and receptive atmosphere. I truly wish I could stay in a similar state of being… Continue reading

    Shifting to neutrality when hitting everyday bumps
  • Discover your Human Design

    I’m always open and curious to seek out different teachings hoping it will add to the understanding of myself and others. Alternative doctrines such as astrology, numerology and Ayurveda are only few which have peaked my interest. Although  theories viewed… Continue reading

    Discover your Human Design
  • Using a rubber band to snap back to reality!

    Have you ever found yourself in a mental loop? Excessively thinking about something with no resolution? You might be fixating on something which happened in the past or potentially might or might not  in the future. Or perhaps you fill… Continue reading

    Using a rubber band to snap back to reality!
  • Get bleepin angry-what do to when you’re angry (part 2/2)

    In the previous post I touched on unhealthy approaches in regards to anger instead of the “abc” way which is my own simplified explanation of the underlying intention of and potent responses to, our emotions. If you haven’t read about… Continue reading

    Get bleepin angry-what do to when you’re angry (part 2/2)
  • Are you “understanding” to avoid confronting?

    Most would agree that each time we are mistreated or a boundary is crossed by someone we feel an inner tension or stress. This internal imbalance automatically generates a seeking for relief. We desire to return to our emotional neutral… Continue reading

    Are you “understanding” to avoid confronting?
  • SHAME (when you cross a line)!

    Few years back I was invited to a social function where I wasn’t familiar with the guests, only the host. The event turned into an annual gathering and I became acquainted with the people. The last time I participated, I… Continue reading

    SHAME (when you cross a line)!
  • What’s your spirit plant?

    I was watching one of my favorite spiritual teachers Teal Swan on youtube talking about spirit plants. The name of the video is, you guessed it, “What is a Spirit Plant and How to Find Your Spirit Plant”. To summarize… Continue reading

    What’s your spirit plant?
  • When you’re triggered as f**k

    (Related to the post “Let the trigger game begin!”)  I’m guilty of using the words triggered, trauma and emotional wound interchangeably although not being synonymous. For starters, here is my interpretation of the slight distinction between the three. A trauma occurs… Continue reading

    When you’re triggered as f**k