Advice/Support for singles
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Desperation in Dating: What It Is, Why It Happens, and How to Break Free
Today, we’re tackling an uncomfortable but necessary topic: desperation. Who doesn’t love a desperate woman? (Spoiler: no one.) I’ve had my fair share of desperado moments—so much so, I borderline made it a full-time job. To kick things off, let… Continue reading
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“If you don’t have children, you’ll regret it”- words of wisdom or castigation?
Most singles will receive comments and opinions about their solo lifestyle routinely. “How come you’re still single?”, “isn’t it time to settle down?”, “have you met anyone interesting recently?”. These are all questions to be expected. Whether it be at… Continue reading
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The million-dollar question: when will you meet the one?
Many singles, especially those who’ve been on the solo road for some time, might frequently ask themselves the million-dollar question: When will I meet the person for me? Obviously, it’d be impossible for anyone to pinpoint the exact time and… Continue reading
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The only thing to do when everyone is settling down but you
Years ago, within one and the same month, three of my close friends announced their pregnancies. Clearly, they were in advanced states of nesting. Meanwhile I was still cooped up in my tiny student apartment nowhere near a relationship, let… Continue reading
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The Pedestal- 4 ways idolizing romantic relationships ruin single life
Romantic relationships can be a beautiful union, yet it’s important to have realistic, down to earth kind of outlook on them. All lifestyles can be described in a dualistic fashion, there are always: pros and cons, sacrifices and gains, challenging… Continue reading
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A friendly reminder to all singles: Your life is not vegan cheese! (Happy Valentine’s day)
Since it’s Valentine’s day, I thought I’d seize the opportunity and offer a friendly reminder to singles feeling extra triggered on this commercially hyped up day. Roses, chocolate and the color red began filling isles weeks ago to assure nobody… Continue reading
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Haunted! When the ghost returns..
Ghosting, ghosting, ghosting, there’s lots to say about it. In fact, I’ve written two separate posts on the topic: when ghosting occurs in a romantic context and in friendship. There’s a term following the vanishing act which I’m positive will soon… Continue reading
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Happy belated Singles Day!
Happy belated Singles Day! Did you know that singles are ascribed a celebratory day? Singles day is on November 11th which happens to coincide with my birthday! I’m pleased to see the single status being acknowledged and on the receiving… Continue reading
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Ghosting- a peephole into a persons character
According to Oxford languages, the definition of ghosting is “the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication”. Unfortunately, this type of disturbing behaviour is closely associated with the dating world.… Continue reading
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Never get involved with newly singles (the rebound trap)
Regardless of what type of relationship one might be searching for, it’s a sifting and sorting game. For those seeking the “romantic” longterm kind there will be many candidates passing through who won’t fit the criteria . Among these I’d… Continue reading









