Different types of challenges appear in dating and single life depending on where the Sigma is on her journey. I’d divide the sigma females’ singles journey into three main categories, all with their distinct set of hurdles and potentials. However, the lines aren’t clear cut nor linear, it’s quite common to move in between or have crossovers.

The first signs of a woman being on the Sigma path, is the tremendous efforts to squeeze into the normative box and keeping up with the herd. In love, she will watch those around her going through similar events and phases while the attempts to keep up are to no avail. It’s as if life is blocking her from meeting the one and accessing the normative club. This can be a painful place and somehow single life is to blame. She often finds herself feeling that something is wrong with her or her life, that she’s missing out, being left out or punished. She might also struggle with a sense of self-doubt, low self-esteem and rejection among other things.

Second are the ladies who have ditched the normative life and surrendered to their own unique path. This Sigma knows that she isn’t flawed although collective (often implicit) beliefs say so. She has followed her inner voice enough to trust life and confident in her abilities. However, when it comes to love her faith is continuously tested. She is open to meeting a partner, but either no one is reciprocating her interest or she’s going on lots of dates with no progress. Life is seemingly only throwing her lesson after lesson in the disguise of potential love candidates. Challenges in this stage is typically associated, with lack of boundaries, integrity, self-abandonment, frustrations, learning to let go, guilt and reaching a deeper sense of self love.

Lastly, we have the single women who’ve embodied the sigma essence fully. She is content with life, comfortable in the ups and downs and in no need a partner. She can appreciate love encounters without attachment and expectations. Life have taught her to stay present and to have faith while holding a clear desire of what she seeks with no potential partner in sight. How can she meet someone in a world not designed for Sigma’s? What’s the next step?

The common denominator for all the single Sigma female’s is the apparent clash between life and the norm or social expectations in love. While those around her typically settle down she’s meet with closed doors, disappointments, long phases of solitude or simply tensions with herself or with in dating/love life. This can be a painful or confusing process. My aim is to assist and share how in actuality single life is a unique life expression with lots of opportunities and potentials for inner and outer growth. Together we’ll uncover all that’s necessary for you to uncover the unique purpose of your single life.

What are you facing on your journey presently? Do you have reoccurring obstacles? Are you fustrated to why all of it is happening? Ready to find out the deeper meaning to your singleness?

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