Ghosting, ghosting, ghosting, there's lots to say about it. In fact, I’ve written two separate posts on the topic: when ghosting occurs in a romantic context and in friendship. There's a term following the vanishing act which I’m positive will soon be part of the English vocabulary and that is: haunted. To be haunted is shortly, …
According to Oxford languages, the definition of ghosting is “the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication”. Unfortunately, this type of disturbing behaviour is closely associated with the dating world. Ghosting can take place on a small scale ( after a nice date or two) …
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I wanted to write a piece on rejection because I recently had a conversation where it hit me just how unaware most people seem to be when it comes to the link between rejection and self-blame but also the disproportional relationship between the two. My experience when working with people (especially those dissatisfied with their …
This will be the last rejection tale. As previously this is also a true story. There's no need to spend time giving a detailed background leading up to the rejection because it starts off as most does when a woman and man start dating. So let's keep it short and bitter. Imagine spending time with …
Sara contemplated back and forth whether she should go to Italy by herself or not. She had less than 48 hours to make her decision. The same morning as take off she decided to go for it. Once at the airport she promised herself that she would make the most of her weekend. Obviously the …
This is the typical girl meets boy at the bar. Let's call her Sara and him David. They started talking, and Sara found David very interesting since he was visiting her hometown from Switzerland but originally being from Italy. He stood out compared to everyone else at the bar and they enjoyed each others company. …
Continue reading Rejection story: The girl who went to Italy (part 1)
This is a story of rejection in two rounds. The second part is quite unique I would say. Let's call the girl "Anna" and the rejector "Viktor". It all started with a party Anna almost didn't go to. Thanks to a nagging friend she pulled herself out bed last minute and reluctantly met up with …
Continue reading Rejection story: The double layered rejection
I got an email a while ago from a woman who was interested in someone but the other person didn't reciprocate those feelings. It was clear from her writing that she felt hurt and unwanted. This is understandable and I don't think anyone would react differently. Honestly, I'm not sure I can come up with …
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