relationships
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Surviving online dating: Assume nothing, believe nothing, check everything
While on a train back from a quick getaway, I was watching a true crime documentary. The episode was following a lead detective solving a real “whodunit” murder case. The opening scene filmed the investigator up close underlining the importance… Continue reading
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“If you don’t have children, you’ll regret it”- words of wisdom or castigation?
Most singles will receive comments and opinions about their solo lifestyle routinely. “How come you’re still single?”, “isn’t it time to settle down?”, “have you met anyone interesting recently?”. These are all questions to be expected. Whether it be at… Continue reading
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The million-dollar question: when will you meet the one?
Many singles, especially those who’ve been on the solo road for some time, might frequently ask themselves the million-dollar question: When will I meet the person for me? Obviously, it’d be impossible for anyone to pinpoint the exact time and… Continue reading
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The Pedestal- 4 ways idolizing romantic relationships ruin single life
Romantic relationships can be a beautiful union, yet it’s important to have realistic, down to earth kind of outlook on them. All lifestyles can be described in a dualistic fashion, there are always: pros and cons, sacrifices and gains, challenging… Continue reading
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What’s the bright side of online dating ( no, it’s not a trick question)?
What is the bright side of online dating? And no, this is not a trick question. Generally speaking, dating apps and websites seem to have a negative reputation (to different degrees) which is a shame and it’s time we turn… Continue reading
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A friendly reminder to all singles: Your life is not vegan cheese! (Happy Valentine’s day)
Since it’s Valentine’s day, I thought I’d seize the opportunity and offer a friendly reminder to singles feeling extra triggered on this commercially hyped up day. Roses, chocolate and the color red began filling isles weeks ago to assure nobody… Continue reading
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Ever been ghosted by a friend? Here’s why and what to do about it
The concept of ghosting is an established and frowned upon sort of behavior nowadays. The term “ghosting” seems to have been birthed from the digital dating world and typically associated with love scenarios. Rarely have I come across it in… Continue reading
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Ghosting- a peephole into a persons character
According to Oxford languages, the definition of ghosting is “the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication”. Unfortunately, this type of disturbing behaviour is closely associated with the dating world.… Continue reading
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Never get involved with newly singles (the rebound trap)
Regardless of what type of relationship one might be searching for, it’s a sifting and sorting game. For those seeking the “romantic” longterm kind there will be many candidates passing through who won’t fit the criteria . Among these I’d… Continue reading
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A major red flag when online dating
I had a session with a woman who’s been married and found herself single for the first time in her adult life. She expressed feeling ready to try out the waters of online dating and asked for the number one… Continue reading









